Identity: Breaking the Illusion of the Self

Infinite (spiritual ) vs Personal Identity

By MUKADAM AJETUNMOBI

6/15/20252 min read

woman holding behind curtain
woman holding behind curtain

Breaking the Illusion of the Self

Infinite Identity vs. Personal Identity

“You are not the body. You are not the mind. You are the boundless, the unborn, the eternal.”

These words may sound poetic, even mystical, but for one who truly sees, they are not metaphor—they are truth. In a world that celebrates individuality and personal achievement, few dare to question the foundation of their identity. Yet the deepest transformation only begins when we do.

Welcome to a shift in perception: from the limited “I” to the limitless “is-ness.”

🌍 What Is Personal Identity?

Your personal identity is a psychological construct—a story formed from memory, emotion, culture, belief, and perception. It is composed of labels:

  • I am this gender

  • I am this nationality

  • I am this profession

  • I am this personality type

  • I am what happened to me

These identities help you navigate the world, but they are not who you truly are. They are like clothes: useful, but not you. When we cling to them, we create separation, fear, anxiety, and a constant need for validation.

Personal identity is exclusive and fragile. It says, “This is me... and that is not me.” That separation is the root of all conflict, both internal and external.

🌱 Personal Identity?

Your personal identity is everything you’ve gathered through experience: your name, gender, culture, education, beliefs, preferences, job, and even your traumas. It is the psychological story you carry.

It includes:

  • Your thoughts and emotions

  • The roles you play (daughter, teacher, artist, etc.)

  • Your social media persona

  • Your memories, aspirations, and fears

It’s a constructed identity—and while it helps you function in society, it also creates limitation. Most people live their whole lives inside this costume, forgetting that they are not the mask, but the presence behind it.

🌌 What Is Infinite Identity?

Infinite Identity is not a belief—it is direct experiential knowing of your nature beyond the body and mind. It is not something you gain; it is something you uncover when the layers of false identification fall away.

It is:

  • The presence that was there before you had a name

  • The silence behind every thought

  • The awareness watching your life unfold

  • The same life force animating every being

Infinite Identity is inclusive, whole, eternal. It recognizes no boundary, no enemy, no “other.” It is not a personality—it is the presence that holds all personalities.

When you touch this dimension, you do not dissolve into emptiness—you expand into everything.

🌌 Spiritual Identity?

Your spiritual identity is not an identity in the conventional sense—it's the realization that your essence is not separate from life itself. It is your pure being, prior to thought, emotion, and personality.

It cannot be defined but can be experienced as:

  • Stillness

  • Boundlessness

  • Awareness

  • Conscious presence

In this state, there’s no division between you and the universe. You don’t possess life—you are life. This is not philosophy. This is direct experience, available to anyone willing to look inward.